As we travel along with Harry
throughout the series, we get to see a tremendously strange path of growth in
the field of empathy. When we first meet Harry (excluding when he was a baby),
we find him in a home where not a lot of things really make sense. I know,
that’s a shocker to say when we’re reading a story about wizards and witches!
But honestly, the most baffling place in this story is 4 Privet Drive. Not
because of a lack of magic, or muggle hygiene, or even felly-tones, or whatever
it is they’re called. This place is the strangest simply because there is a
general lack of proper emotion. There’s anger where anger isn’t due, love where
love isn’t due, hate where hate isn’t due, and an overall sense of strangeness.
These people don’t seem to feel the way normal people feel. The only emotion I
think Harry could ever empathize with would be Dudley’s annoyance with Aunt
Marge (which is for completely different reasons, and not much empathy is
really deserved in his case). For all of Harry’s early life, he really doesn’t
have any chance to exhibit empathy.
Before I go any further, I would
like to put out the definition of empathy for you: “The ability to understand
and share the feelings of another.” Let’s move on.
As a whole in this series, I think
Harry has a very difficult time feeling empathy for others, simply because he
was not raised knowing how to, or even knowing he should. There are many parts
in the text where Harry simply doesn’t show empathy, and it can be quite
frustrating. But there are a couple key examples where I think that Harry
shines. I’m just going to hit a few of the ones that stick out.
Right off the bat in the first book,
we see Harry exhibit some strange and powerful empathy towards Hermione.
Hermione is a lot different from Harry, but they both share the bond of not
being raised in the Wizarding world. Throughout the beginning of the firs book,
Hermione is picked on, ridiculed, and mostly left alone. She’s the booksmart
nerd, and she doesn’t draw many friends. While most people, even Ron, seem to
find it easy to pick on her, Harry does not. Now Harry isn’t exactly lovely to
Hermione, but he’s not a jerk like the rest. He notices her struggle, her
loneliness that she feels, and he can identify with that. Because he has been
lonely his whole life, and he knows how it feels. He knows it’s not fun. So
part of heading to the bathroom to fight the troll came from courage, but a
chunk of it came from empathy.
Next, I think it’s interesting to
focus on the house elves. Harry has a very weird response to the house elves.
You would think he would know a little bit about what life is like as a
“slave”. Living with the Dursley’s was very much like a house elf’s life (not
quite as bad, I’m sure, but similar). But Harry seems not to be really bothered
by the house elves predicaments, except for in the case of Dobby, his friend.
But he avidly rejects S.P.E.W. invitations, and doesn’t seem to really care
about their freedom. Granted, they may say they don’t want freedom, but one
could almost presume something sinister was at work.
Sirius Black is another interesting
and beautiful case of empathy. In the series, Harry knows all about being
trapped, or cooped up, not being allowed to know or see or do anything. Yes,
it’s for safety, in both cases. Part of this empathy can be traced simply to
Harry’s love for his godfather. But there’s more to it. Harry knows what Sirius
is feeling all to well. He knows it like the back of his hand. He doesn’t get a
lot of chance to share in that feeling with Sirius, but Sirius is shown how
much Harry really cares, and his empathy shines through.
Lastly, we have two examples from
the fifth book. The first is from Lord Voldemort. Now, this is not true
empathy. But I find it interesting that empathy, the understanding and sharing
of feelings, is such a prevalent theme for Rowling. Voldemort, in this book,
has just found out that he and Harry share a connection in their mind. Through
this connection, Harry is actually forced to share emotions that Voldemort
feels. I can’t imagine how scary it would be to feel emotions that you know
aren’t yours. But this kind of forced empathy is very peculiar. Second, we have
Dumbledore. This final example is more an example of non-empathy. It is in the
heat of the moment, so much of it can be forgiven on Harry’s part. But as he is
in Dumbledore’s office getting everything explained to him, Harry absolutely
refuses to understand Dumbledore’s emotions. At one point, he even in his head
comments that Dumbledore isn’t allowed to be feeling sad at this moment. It’s
very teenager-esque, and comes after some severe trauma, so it is understood;
that does not make it great.
Empathy is an interesting theme that
Rowling brings out in her story. It seems to be very important, but as Harry
grows, the empathy shapes and reforms, but it’s not always growing. It will be
interesting to see what we see of this further in the series.
Michael Evans
Michael Evans
How interesting you mentioned this, I never really thought about Harry's strange relationship with empathy. All the examples you made were on point but I'd like to add one that came to mind while reading your blog. Harry's inability to feel any empathy for Cho when she was attempting to sort out her feelings for Harry while morning Cedric's death. Harry was unable to feel any empathy for Cho he could not understand how she felt, why she felt the way she did, and how he could relate to her. I always felt so awkward reading the scenes between them but making the connection between his growing up on Private Drive and his lack of empathy and being able to relate to people helps me to better understand how he is feeling and struggling to get through the same scenes I hate to read because of the awkward interaction between the two.
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